Love of Self

On the chopra Intent.Blog there has been talk about infidelity and opinions fly about the John Edwards story. I'm noticing a change in my field of relationships and don't think that I can engage romatically with a man who is involved with another woman. Why? Because a man who is involved with another woman carries her scent and I cannot cross these emotional lines. It would also create karma between me, him and her. A triangulation that I don't want to carry. What about unconditional love? I may be learning that this higher love is about my relationship with Self and not someone else. I have to be true to me...keeping myself in relationship balance.